“I didn’t fall in love with you. I walked into love with you, with my eyes wide open, choosing to take every step along the way. I do believe in fate and destiny, but I also believe we are only fated to do things that we’d choose anyway. And I’d choose you; in a hundred lifetimes, in a hundred worlds, in any version of reality, I’d find you and I’d choose you.” –Kiersten White
It is so much easier to just close yourself off to the idea of love, to shield your heart from the possibility of it breaking, to save yourself the possibility of letting someone see the truest version of yourself. It’s also so much easier to just the love the good parts of a person, to overlook the bad and to attempt to separate the two. However love doesn’t allow you to do that.
Vulnerability is hard and we all sometimes do our best to hide that part of ourselves because we’re afraid to let someone see the not so pretty parts of who we are.
However I need you to know that even on your worst days I will love you more.
Why would I do that? Well it’s because that is what you deserve and that is what love is. It isn’t always going to be beautiful, it’s going to be messy and sometimes irritating but on those days I promise to love you more than I did the day before.
I’ll love you for everything you hate about yourself whether that is things you see as imperfections or habits that you have.
I’ll love you on the days you don’t feel as smart or if you mess up something at work. I’ll remind you of how intelligent you are and boost you up.
I’ll love you on bad hair days though you rarely have any.
I’ll love you when your insecurities are pointed out.
I will love you for the man you are and I’ll appreciate you for everything you try to do.
I will love every moment we spend together and the memories that we create.
I’ll love you harder when your natural instincts kick in and you start pushing me away. In fact I’ll pull in you in closer.
I’ll love you through every argument and promise never to let you go to bed if we’re still angry.
I’ll love you even when you frustrate me.
I’ll love you when you’re trying to push my buttons.
I’ll love you for all the times you aren’t quite sure you’re getting this whole relationship thing right.
I’ll love you even when you start to fail at communicating with me.
I’ll love you when you’re feeling weak and you let yourself cry.
I’ll love you when you are stumbling because you’ve taken one too many shots.
I’ll love you when you constantly repeat yourself.
I’ll love you when you’re wrong even though I know I’m right.
Simply put no matter what I’m going to love you.
I’ll love you because when I see you, I see someone who is always trying to be better, to do better.
I’ll love you because you push me to be a better person daily.
Even at your worst days you’re still the best to me.
I’ll love you through this journey we call life.
I’ll love you through the confusing times, the angry times and the happy times.
I’ll love you even when you don’t know what you want to do in life, when you’ve reached a cross point and you don’t know which direction to turn.
I’ll love you for your past and I’ll love you for what is to remain in the future.
I’ll love you despite any reason you think you aren’t meant to be loved.
I’ll love you forever or as long as you’ll have me.
Everything that makes you the unique individual you are will be reason enough to love you.
There may not be such a thing as perfection but for me you’re pretty close and you’re the perfect guy for me.
I will love you through the bad harder than I love you through the good.
That’s what love is.
I’ll love you like this forever because no matter what kind of curve ball life throws at us,
I’m going to love you through it.